Dude, I was the same way... I didn't find my wife until I was 29! I dated A LOT and just got ired of all the BS that went with it so I took some time off (1 year) I drank a lot and did and brought what I wanted and she just fell into my lap. 6 years later... house, 19 month old twins, and more bills than I care to count! I love it all!! DON'T RUSH, it will happen!